John DeSimone

John DeSimone, a cherished pillar of Leonia, New Jersey, whose life was a testament to quiet dedication, unwavering community spirit, and an infectious joie de vivre, passed away on March 14, 2026, at Englewood Hospital. Born on November 26, 1947, at Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck, New Jersey, John carried with him a legacy of family devotion, civic engagement, and heartfelt kindness that touched all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

A graduate of Bergen Catholic High School in Paramus, NJ, John furthered his education at St. John’s University in New York, laying a foundation that would support both his business acumen and his thoughtful leadership. The DeSimone family’s connection to Moore’s Hardware in Leonia, a cherished community landmark, began in 1952 with John’s father, Ferruccio “Fred” DeSimone, and uncle Bruno at the helm. In 1986, John assumed sole ownership and stewardship of the store, carrying forward a tradition steeped in service and neighborhood camaraderie. The store was more than a place of commerce; it was a gathering spot where John became a de facto mayor, offering a listening ear, sage advice, and steady support to his neighbors.

John’s commitment to Leonia extended beyond the counter. Emboldened by his desire to help in tangible ways, he served on the town council from 2010 to 2012. Recognized for his resolve and ability to connect with the community, John won the mayoral election and served as Leonia’s Mayor from 2012 until 2016. In this role, he embodied the essence of humble service — never seeking fanfare, but always acting with purpose to uplift his fellow citizens.

Those who knew John remember a man whose heart was as expansive as his smile was bright. His personality was described as bubbly, warm, and full of good humor. It was impossible not to be drawn into his joy, where laughter was frequent and every day held the promise of a merry conversation. He delighted in the simple pleasures: old black and white movies, the timeless melodies of Frank Sinatra—recalling with reverence the day he witnessed Sinatra perform live on Long Island, amidst a sea of swooning fans. These memories breathed life into his stories, told with the heartfelt ease of a man who found joy in every chapter of his journey.

As a boy, John delivered newspapers across Fort Lee, a daily ritual that included faithfully bringing the morning paper to Frank Sinatra’s father. His sharp aim and punctuality earned him a generous Christmas gift—an early testament to the discipline and care that would define his life. His love for baseball was passionate and encyclopedic; stats flowed readily from his lips with as much enthusiasm as his fondness for the legendary Yogi Berra, whose aphorisms like “If you see a fork in the road, take it” echoed John’s own embrace of life’s unpredictable beauty.

John’s devotion extended deeply into his family. He was a supportive and encouraging presence, often seen coaching his children at their school sports events, sharing in their triumphs and guiding their dreams. Vacations to Walt Disney World were treasured times of bonding and joy, emblematic of his commitment to creating lasting memories for those he loved.

John’s immediate family who survive him include his beloved son John W. DeSimone (known affectionately as Duke), daughters Jennifer DeSimone and Jaime Ellison, and his son-in-law, Marc Ellison. The warmth of his legacy shines brightly in his six grandchildren—Emma, Mia, Mason, Jake, Kate, and Jack—who carry forward his spirit and laughter. His sister, Margaret (Peggy) Andrews, and beloved nieces and nephews also grieve alongside them. His longstanding partner and best friend, Rebecca Root, and her two children, Brady and Lindsay, were cherished companions who shared with John a true and lasting bond with smiles and laughter along the way.

John was preceded in death by his father, Ferruccio “Fred” DeSimone; his mother, Michalina (Margaret) DeSimone (née Fondi); and his brother, Robert “Bobby” DeSimone. Their memories live on in the fabric of the family and the community John so loved.

John DeSimone’s journey was defined by a steadfast dedication to family, an unshakeable commitment to community, and a heart filled with generosity expressed through quiet deeds rather than grandeur. His life invites reflection on the power of simple acts—delivering a newspaper on time, running a family-owned hardware store, serving as mayor—not for recognition, but because they simply needed to be done.

He leaves behind a Leonia forever touched by his kindness, a family rich with love, and memories that will continue to inspire smiles. To be in John’s presence was to be reminded that true happiness resides in humble service, warm laughter, and the gentle touch of a life well-loved.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to "Friends of the Bergen County Animal Shelter" (FOCAS), PO Box 439, Hasbrouck Heights, NJ 07604-0439

(Photo credit to professional photographer, Dennis Chalkin)